The more information I know about you the more I can ultimately please us both! Remember… communication is the key to all relationships, BDSM and vanilla alike!

Below is a list of BDSM activities… Don’t be overwhelmed by this list. You may have no idea what some of these things are, and that’s OKAY! Take your time and answer as honestly and as best you can. Let the list give you new ideas, spur communication and
remember, your answers will change over time and depending on what person you are filling this out for. Some words have similar meaning and are left ambiguous, to see what they mean to you.

You are free to use this list as it is intended by copy/pasting and them e-mailing the full list to me at theempressholly@gmail.com or you can simply use it as a guide to think of what you like or don’t like. This helps me better prepare for our sessions and make our call the best it can possibly be!

If you would like to use the list as originally intended please use
the following guidelines:

Please put 2-3 answers next to each item:
The first answer should be, if you’ve ever tried that activity before (If Yes please denote RL -Real Life or P – Phone)
· Yes = I have participated in this activity before
· No = I have not participated in this activity before

The second answer should be your interest in engaging in that activity on a scale of 0
– 5, NO,?, +, ! or a combination.
· 0 = I have no interest/don’t like this, but would do it to please you.
· 1 = Not very interesting/don’t really enjoy this too much.
· 2 = This is OK,
· 3 = This is nice/fun/interesting
· 4 = I really enjoy/think I’ll enjoy this activity
· 5 = I LOVE THIS/CAN’T WAIT TO TRY THIS
· NO = Hard limit. I will not participate in this activity at all, at this time.
· ? = Unfamiliar with this activity.
· + = I’m scared of this but would possibly like to explore it.
· ! = I’m embarrassed to admit I like this.
Examples:
Flogging: Yes -P/5 (Have done it before on the Phone/LOVE IT!)
Cutting: No/+ (Have never tried/scared of this but might like to try it)
Tickling: Yes -RL/5+! (Have done this before in Real Life/love it/scared of it/embarrassed I like it)

The third Answer would be to write any explanations or more information after your
answers. Remember, the more information you have the safer/hotter/more fun things
will be.

Examples:
Flogging: Yes/5 – I especially love to be flogged on my back!!!
Tickling: Yes/5+! – My feet are my most ticklish place but I didn’t tell you that!

Here’s the List~

Age Play:
Anal Sex:
Arm/Leg Sleeves:
Asphyxiation:
Begging/Pleading:
Being Blindfolded:
Being Gagged:
Bestiality:
Biting:
Bondage (heavy):
Bondage (light):
Boot Worship:
Branding:
Breast bondage:
Breast Whipping:
Caning:
Catheterization:
Chauffeuring:
Choking:
Chosen Clothing for:
Chosen Food For:
Clothespins:
Cock Worship:
Collars (wearing):
Corsets (wearing):
Cutting:
Double Penetration:
Duct Tape:
Electricity:
Enemas:
Examinations (physical):
Exhibitionism:
Face Slapping:
Fantasy Gang Rape:
Fantasy Rape:
Fire Play:
Fisting:
Flogging (back):
Flogging (butt)
Following Orders:
Foot Worship:
Forced Dressing:
Forced Homosexuality:
Forced Masturbation:
Forced Nudity:
Forced Servitude:
Full Head Hoods:
Gags:
Genital Sex:
Given Away:
Hair Pulling:
Hairbrushes:
Hand Jobs:
Handcuffs (metal):
Harnessing:
Head (getting):
Head (giving):
High Heel Worship:
Homage With Tongue:
Hot Waxing:
Housework:
Human Pony:
Human Puppy:
Humiliation In Private:
Humiliation In Public:
Ice Cubes:
Including Others:
Infantilism:
Interrogations:
Intricate Rope Bondage:
Kicking:
Kidnapping:
Kneeling:
Latex:
Leather Restraints:
Lecturing:
Licking:
Massage(getting):
Massage(giving):
Medical Scenes:
Mommy Play:
Mouth Bits:
Mummification(saran wrap etc):
Needle Play:
Nipple torment:
Oral/Anal Play:
Orgasm Control:
Orgasm Denial:
Over-the-Knee Spanking:
Piercing (perm):
Piercing (temp):
Pony Play:
Punching (controlled):
Punching (beat down):
Pussy Whipping:
Pussy Worship:
Religious Scenes:
Riding Crops:
Rope:
Scratching:
Sensory Deprivation:
Serving as Ashtray:
Serving as Furniture:
Serving as Maid:
Serving Orally:
Serving Other (elaborate):
Sex in Scene:
Sexual Deprivation:
Shaving:
Single Tail (light/sensual):
Single Tail (moderate/heavy)
Spanking:
Speculums (vaginal):
Spreader Bars:
Stocks:
Straight Jacket:
Strap-on Dildos:
Supplying Victims:
Suspension:
Swapping:
Swinging:
Tattooing:
Teasing:
Tickling:
Triple Penetration:
Uniforms:
Verbal Humiliation:
Videoed Scenes:
Voyeurism:
Whipping (cat o’ nine tails etc.):
Wrestling:

Remember that my style is “sensual” but that doesn’t limit what I like to do. I can (and have) done all the things every other Dominatrix has done… just in my own style.

Hope to hear from you soon!

Empress Holly